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Showing posts with label rahatupu. Show all posts
Here's Kenya's $exiest Female PASTOR giving Men Hard Times
Mambo ya mahaba rahatupu Sexy Pics UremboForget about JCC's Kathy Kiuna, there's a new female pastor in town named, Lucy Natasha, who has been creating a buzz on social media due to her $exy look.
Pastor Natasha has a body to die for and one wonders how male members in her congregation concentrate as she preaches the word of God. Check out the photos below.



Those who sent their Application to RAYC for marriage? She has Some Bad News For you
Nyota wa Bongo raha za wakubwa rahatupu sexTwo weeks ago, Ray C announced that she is looking for a husband and even went ahead to give 10 conditions that her future husband must meet.
Just when people thought that no man would be interested because of her conditions, over 500 men wrote to her expressing their desire to hook up with the Tanzanian artist.
But now, Ray C has bad news for all men because that was just a publicity stunt to help her dwindling fortunes.
According to Ray C, she will never marry a man she met online because she knows that God is the one who provides a suitable husband.
GIRLS" Things To Note When You Need To Stick With A Guy For A Long Time.
Mambo ya mahaba Mapenzi Picha za Uchi rahatupu10) Be Playful
Guys l0ve girls that they can joke around with. Most guys want girls who
don’t take themselves too seriously because this makes guys more
comfortable. Start giving guys a few playful punches to the arm, a
tussling of the hair, a poke in the waist, etc. Knowing how to playfully
flirt and how to use a sarcastic tone well is very key in developing a
fun personality that will cause guys to feel attraction for you. If you
can take a playful insult and maybe deliver a few playful insults of
your own, you’ll be well on your way to magnetize men.
The problem is that most women aren’t willing to take chances in this
department. They’re too “lady-like” and “polite.” Forget about all that.
Men love a woman who knows how to exude a playful vibe. You know how
humor is the way to a woman’s heart? Well it’s the same for men.
9) Smell Good
Your breath and your perfume are absolutely crucial. Bad breath on girls
is probably one of the biggest things that can completely turn off a
man and I’ve had a lot of prior experience. Body odor is just as bad.
Although it sounds cliched that I’m telling you to keep your breath
fresh and your perfume handy, this is actually a very important aspect
of your hygiene that you need to MAKE ABSOLUTELY SURE YOU CONTROL. I
once met a really cute girl but once I smelled her absolutely RANCID
breath I just cringed and got out of that situation.
You have a purse, so use it! Keep breath mints and gum handy, and
furthermore always brush your teeth and tongue very well anytime you’re
about to meet a guy. I also like to keep a box of gum/tic-tacs by the
bed handy so that when you wake up with your man you can have some very
enjoyable morning sex.
8) Be Feisty
Feisty girls are girls that don’t let guys take control of them. Guys
love what they can’t have easily, and having a little bit of fesity
attitude helps. Of course you’ve got to gauge the guy, because there are
some guys who absolutely hate feistiness. Most of these guys have some
kind of issues with self-esteem or control, and thus, probably not worth
your time. Do not let him have what he wants ALL the time; instead show
him that you are going to make some choices.
However, DO NOT be domineering or try to be the boss (unless your guy is
into that). Men need a certain level of control and they need to
validate themselves as manly men. So to emasculate him would not be a
good way to make him think you’re a keeper.
7) Look Good
Guys are very unlike girls. A majority of our attraction comes from how a
girl looks. Some of you may be thinking, “But what if I don’t already
look good?”
There’s hope for you ladies. Unlike guys, you have makeup and clothes
that help A LOT. I’ve seen time and time again that makeup can
completely reinvent a person’s look. Invest a little money and time on
learning how to dress well + plus look good. Get that gym membership and
start dieting if you’re not happy with your body. Essentially what I’m
asking you to do is become the best you that you can be. Even if you
weren’t born a super model, you can still improve your appearance a lot.
Especially in this modern “Instagram” era, a nice butt can make a guy go
crazy. I know plenty of my guy friends that will assign higher value to
a girl that has an amazing ass. Keep that in mind.
6) Teach / show him something
It is very attractive if a girl can teach something well, especially if
it’s something that may interest us. For example, if you can teach a
musical instrument, an art (like painting or photography), or a sport
(think female-oriented sports like tennis and volleyball). This also
allows for you two to have a new mutual interest and mutual activity. If
you don’t have anything that you could teach, you also should think
about evaluating your life. Do you have a well-balanced life full of
interesting things or are you boring and one-dimensional?
When I date a girl that can open up my horizons that is very attractive.
If you’re the type of girl that doesn’t have many interests or hobbies,
then you need to start expanding your world. Ask yourself, “What are my
interests?” and “Do I have any interesting hobbies?” The more of these
activities that you have the more you’ll be able to teach.
5) Be Interesting
Men can’t be expected to always keep a conversation going, so you’re
going to have to spur the conversation. Have a few interesting topics to
talk about. This also goes back into #4 where I told you to expand your
horizons. When a woman can be incredibly interesting, men will be
attracted despite what the woman looks like. Being interesting also
includes your lifestyle. Having more interests and being a well-rounded
person will help you to be more interesting and therefore help you to
attract men.
It’s also very attractive when the girl I’m talking to loves a few “guy”
things, such as sports or video games. If you can hold your own in
those activities you will attract tons more men.
4) Play a Little Hard to Get
As mentioned prior, men love what they can’t have. So when you display
to him that you have several options, then this really makes him want
you. This is akin to playing hard-to-get, however, you do need to show
interest because many men will move on if they don’t feel like they’ve
planted a seed of interest in you. This means flirt with him, but also
let him know that you have other men in your life that can easily sweep
you away if he doesn’t act.
3) Don’t congregate in crowds
This tip is mostly for the ladies that like to go clubbing a lot to find
men. If you want to be approachable, don’t go with too many other
women. Being with 3 girls or with some guy-friends makes it very
nerve-racking for guys to approach.Guys love to approach 2-women groups
and single people especially. If you do go with a few friends, make sure
you have time to separate yourself and maybe go chill by the bar for a
little bit. Or just sit down somewhere by yourself or with 1 girlfriend
for a little bit.
2) Initiate
Don’t be afraid to make a move on guys. Although I usually don’t
recommend it, there are some guys out there that are shy and need a
pretty big sign before they start making the move (ASIAN GUYS
ESPECIALLY). The best way to let a guy know that you are interested is
to ASK HIM if he wants to
hang out. You don’t need to make it a big deal or call it a date. Just
ask him if he wants to go get some lunch or a coffee and get to know
him. Men believe that it is very “refreshing” when women ask them out.
However, if you really can’t initiate it, or are too shy, you should
give him an opportunity to ask you out. For example, telling him that
you are really bored or telling him you can’t wait to see a certain
movie.
1) Be Bubbly
Laughing a lot, making cute expressions, and being the life of the party
are surefire ways to get noticed by guys. Being bubbly also helps
present your personality as a warm, friendly, very nice person, which is
extremely attractive. You probably know a few girlfriends that are the
definition of “bubbly.”
It’s also been shown that heightening the pitch of your voice is more
attractive subconsciously to men. Other girls may call you “annoying” or
“fake” when you do this, but don’t worry about the haters. Many women
even subconsciously will heighten their pitch without knowing it, as
it definitely makes them appear more bubbly.
A cute smile really goes a long way. That’s why girls like Hyori Lee are so well received by men. Just look at that s3xy smile.
Think of it this way. You’re the girl who is always happy and always
wants to make other people feel good. You are very social, talkative,
sweet people that just immensely brighten up people’s days. Be that girl
and you will find yourself with a lot of options in the man department.
"Mapenzi Raha" 6 Signs Your Spouse May Be Cheating
Mapenzi raha za wakubwa rahatupuI heard somewhere that women always know when their husbands are cheating but men are the last to know when their wives are having an affair. In my practice, I’m not sure I can verify this statement with evidence from clients’ experiences, but it makes sense in that women are usually more intuitive about the health of the relationship. We are constantly monitoring how well our marriage feels to us and we are guilty of comparing our own relationships with those of our friends. It keeps us more on our toes.
But there are universal signs in this electronic age that can tell us if
our spouse is having some kind of inappropriate interaction, whether it
is an emotional or physical affair. Before we get too involved in
this…let me say that I think spying on your spouse is a bad idea. A VERY
bad idea. It is an invasion of their privacy and it is crossing a
boundary. The signs I’m going to list will not require you to be a
private detective. Just observant. Spying never works. If you do find
something, your spouse will feel betrayed (ironic, but true
nonetheless). The discussions now become centered on your betrayal and
the cheating spouse feels even more justified for having the affair. So
avoid spying…but never stop observing.
Signs your spouse may be cheating.
1. Your spouse has become more withdrawn and distant OR just the
opposite. If your spouse is often lost in his/her own thoughts, sharing
less about the day’s events or engaging less with the family, I would
ask questions. It could be they are more stressed, feeling depressed or
anxious but you need to inquire how they are doing. The opposite can
also be an indication. Spouses who are cheating are often feeling
extremely guilty and they will become more attentive and generous. Also,
new relationships often produce adrenaline highs that improve mood.
Your spouse may be much more cheerful and energetic.
2. Increase or decrease in sexual activity. For the same reasons as I described above.
3. Missing time or money. Your spouse isn’t where they are supposed to
be. They seem to be having to work late more and more often. There are
charges that cannot be explained or money that is missing from ATM
withdrawals. It’s hard to cheat without hotel and restaurant expenses.
4. Guarding the cell phone. If your spouse is protective over their
phone and this is new behavior, I would wonder why. New passwords that
have been changed or didn’t exist before is also an indication. This is
also true for other accounts like email and Facebook.
5. Increased texting and/or computer time. Chat rooms online, emails and
other computer programs make it easy to hook up in secrecy. If your
spouse is always on the computer, phone or iPad, it may be time to ask
questions.
6. Your spouse gets angry when you ask him/her if there is someone else
or something going on. There is a right and wrong way to do this so pay
attention. If you think your spouse may be having an inappropriate
relationship with someone, tell him/her what you have noticed that has
caused you to worry. Don’t accuse and don’t be snarky or mean. Just tell
your partner you have concerns and explain the behavior you have seen
that causes you to worry. If you ask your spouse without being
accusatory or degrading, he/she should be able to respond in kind.
Oftentimes a spouse will blow up in anger or make you feel you are crazy
so you will back off. Your question has now threatened the cheating
spouse’s entire world and this can very likely provoke an attack. If
nothing is going on, your partner may be surprised or wondering why you
are asking, but once it is clear how worried you have been, the
non-cheating spouse will often want to help you feel better. If your
partner calmly says there is nothing to worry about, but you still feel
insecure and suspicious, it’s ok to ask for passwords or to see emails
and texts so you can be reassured. Make sure your partner knows this is
temporary and will not be an ongoing request. Also let them know you
will never go through their information without their consent.
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